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A Childhood In Selsdon.

A Memory of Selsdon.

My parents had a chicken farm in Selsdon Vale, where I was born in 1948. I lived there until I left home to go travelling and then to university, at the age of 18, in about 1966. This was about the same time that Selsdon Vale was sold for building land, and my parents and younger brother moved to Croydon.

Memories....roaming in the bird sanctuary, which was really near, and tobogganing there in the winter. Long walks with friends down the length of Old Farleigh Road to get home from school, usually eating penny loaves and sweets which we'd bought. Hunting for new kittens which the farm cats produced regularly, usually in our straw sheds; no-one ever neutered their cats back then. A real rural childhood.

As a child I loved it there; as a teenager less so - it was a long walk back from Croydon if you missed the last bus in the evening. After my parents left I rarely went back to Selsdon at all. But one day I drove down to see what had been done to Selsdon Vale. I remember standing on part of what had been our farm, looking at the endless estate houses, and howling my eyes out. I didn't realise until then how much I'd loved it there, and it was all gone.

I haven't lived in the South-East for many years now, but I'd love to hear from anyone who remembers me. I never changed my name, so that may help jog some memories.


Added 05 April 2022

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Hi Helen, my family moved to Selsdon in 1978 to the development on the Dabners' piggery which became Ridge Langley behind Upper Selsdon Road. In 2009 I moved to Selsdon Vale, so I might live on youe old farm, sorry! Do you know which road(s) cover you old farm today? My house has a great view overlooking Selsdon Wood, which is why we bought it!
Hi (again), this is an interesting read: https://selsdon-residents.co.uk/resources/Gaz%20copy%20Green%20Fields.pdf
Hi Dave, Good to hear from you. I haven't been to Selsdon for many years. However, I looked at a current map of the Selsdon Vale estate (is it still called that?) to try to work out which roads would be where our farm was. I'm not 100% certain, partly because I can't work out exactly where the original Selsdon Vale was. Does Sandpiper Lane follow it, at least for part of the way? Anyway, going along from Old Farleigh Road, my uncle's farm came first, stretching from Selsdon Vale up to Birdwood Close. Then came my family's farm. After that, Birdwood Close came to an end and the properties stretched much further up the hill.

With this in mind, I suspect the current area is Sandpiper Road, Teal Close, and Curlew Close, but I can't be sure. Do you live on any of those? If so, it may well be my family's old farm. If not, tell me where you are, as I may well remember who lived there back in the 1950s/60s, if you'd like to know, that is.

Yes, some of the views from there are wonderful. As a child, I used to like going up through the farm to the back of Birdwood Close, as you got the best view of Selsdon Wood - or the Bird Sanctuary as we called it - from there. I bet that view hasn't changed much.

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